MAKE IT BIG:
What does big entail? I don’t care how you identify, how tall you are or what your background is. Being the alpha is a WAY OF LIFE. It’s not given to you. It’s earned.
Big is: loud voices. Large movements. You laugh the longest. Stretch out on the couch. Phonecalls are on speaker. Insist on the biggest room in the flat. Keep your alarm on louder, and longer than anyone else. Park at the start of the drive. Make a sandwich with 8 pieces of bread.
Take up the space in your living environment. Fill up the silence, the visual relief, the physical area. Condition your betas to the norm that you are boss.
LABELS ARE FOR BETAS:
Nicknames are key. You can nickname everyone in the house. Everyone. Make it obscure so your betas question everything when they look in the mirror. Make the nicknames stick for everyone except you. Deadpan anyone who shortens your name or tries their own nickname for you. Deadpan them right in the face.